If you meet a girl damaged, hungry for the wrong things, thirsty in a bad way, a liability and has only her privates to offer, please and please , do your best to groom her.
If you say you love her, roll up your sleeves and work on her because even in 2019, Nigerian mothers are still domesticating their daughters and ultimately decreasing their global value by determining their life outcome by how well they clean and scrub & attract ‘rich’ men.
If she knows nothing about personal finance .. Teach her
If she knows nothing about savings and investments .. Teach her
If she knows nothing about career mapping and smart goals … teach her
If she knows nothing about patiently building instead of instant gratification .. teach her
If she knows nothing about contentment, faithfulness, ride or die .. teach her.
If she has zero hunger for credible ambition … teach her
If you find her environment and people around her as not a place to thrive, move her as far away as you can.
If you have no patience to do so, send her to me.
Who better to send her to than someone who defied every wrongly ingrained Nigerian doctrine and is walking a path many average persons will think strange.
If you see the woman you love falling short in certain areas, it is because she doesnt know any better.
Teach her. Do not wife her to birth kids and find your match & thrill in concubines, sorry I think the correct word is side chick.
Be concerned for the quality of training your child would get.
Forget about the feminist thingy, many of them do not know anything beyond social media rants. Abeg help them. Help us.
Man + Woman = Society
Marry Well make Naija better.